Following her divorce from her cheating husband, a woman came forward and revealed the red flags that people should look out for in a marriage.
The woman claims that a sudden change in sentiment and allegations of fraud are two big red flags to look out for.
She shared her tips through her account on TikTok, where her videos have received a lot of attention on the internet.
In the first video posted on her account, she says, “In the beginning, my husband was very unpredictable with his feelings and accused me of cheating, even though I was taking care of our son at home.”
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She also explains how concerned she was about his drinking and how mutual friends told her he was “going through something” while he got drunk at a friend’s wedding.
In the videos, which she calls the “warning sign series”, she explains that her husband spoke to his work colleague in many conversations and eventually went on trips where he stayed overnight with her.
The series garnered tens of thousands of views when it explained to its followers a time when he ran over his colleague at a work event.
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“He was all over his mistress, I didn’t know,” she said of the event. “He didn’t sit down with us, he sat at the end of the table and didn’t reserve a place for me, even though this was the first time that I met the people in his department. “
She went on to say that when people wondered why he wasn’t sitting with his wife, people were suspicious. She claims she had to force him to sit down with her before his work colleague came and sat on his lap.
“They were flirting back and forth in a way very similar to the way my husband and I were flirting when we started dating,” she said.
As the situation progressed, she claims that her husband would leave home after an argument and spend the night elsewhere.
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At the end of the series, she tells her followers that when she confronted her husband, he simply refused, and when she asked him to block his colleague’s number, he refused, saying he needed her “for professional reasons”.
“I went to bed pretending to sleep for 15 minutes and then I came downstairs and caught him chatting to her or reading texts over his shoulder, but he still denied he was having an affair,” she said.
She added that the signs became more and more apparent as the affair wore on, and at one point her son discovered a declaration of love between her ex-husband and his lover.
She continues: “Another time was when my grandmother was dying and I wanted to fly to her and was canceled at the last minute because I was a Covid nurse and when I decided to stay home my husband had a big fit why I shouldn’t be at home. “
Viewers were quick to speak out in support of the woman, and many people said that she is much better off without him.
One user wrote: “It sounds like an absolute nightmare. I’m so sorry. Nice that you are healing now”.
Another said, “You know that once a cheater is always a cheater. This relationship won’t last.”
“Wow, toxic,” added another.
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