An adjutant of the president, Ebidapo Oyewole, was drawn by his alienated wife Dooshima Oyewole in front of the family court of the Supreme Court of the Federal Capital area Abuja about the care of her child before the family court of the federal state, Abuja.
In an application with C/295/25, which was submitted in accordance with Section 69 (1) of the Child Rights Act from 2003, Dooshima is looking for an order for legal and physical custody for your child as well as the maintenance of the child between her and Oyewol.
Dooshima announced in a affidavit in court with 37 paragraphs that she and Oyewole married on May 28, 2011 in the marriage register of Abuja Municipal Area Council.
She said the marriage was blessed with a son who is currently in the sole custody of Oyewole, who, as she claimed, had refused to access the child.
Dooshima explained that the marriage did not immediately produce a child, a situation that put intensive pressure on it and made them make several adjustments, including the withdrawal of her job as a journalist and radio station.
“After six months of attempt, without success, I started a challenging and traumatic seven -year fertility trip, which included various invasive gynecological treatments in Abuja, Lagos and the United Kingdom.
“I was wrongly assumed that the reason not to receive with me was exposed to numerous scans, operations and IVF rounds, which led to a significant gain in weight and the need for hormonal therapy.
“I adhered to strict health regimes and looked at the respondents (Oyewole) during this period in enormous financial, physical and emotional abuse, which took part in medical visits alone.
“I secured £ 35,000 of medical financial funds from the British government for fertility treatments by East Sussex County National Health Service, which turned out that the main cause was for our inability to confront oligoastenoteratozozozopermia, as was confirmed by a medical report by the Esperance Hospital.
“This diagnosis was probably known to the questioned (Oyewole) because his former six -year marriage did not produce any children,” she said.
Dooshima also claimed that Oyewole left her throughout the IVF procedure and a successful pregnancy in Great Britain and moved to Nigeria to record professional and financially lucrative opportunities with McKinsey & Company, an American consulting company for multinational management.
“During this time I had suffered financial and emotional deprivation and had to take up employment to support myself. I also received support from the local parish in the Holy Trinity Anglican Church Eastbourne, ”added Dooshima.
Dooshima explained that Oyewole visited the United Kingdom in May 2017, when she was 28 weeks pregnant.
“During this visit, I suffered considerable tensions, verbal abuse and emotional stress from Oyewole's actions. As a result, I have developed life -threatening pregnancy complications, which led to premature work and spontaneous vaginal childbirth.
“The respondent left me while I was actively working, was bleeding and was painful and went to Nigeria without arranging me for my care or to take me to the hospital for medical help.
“I was supported by the local parish to get to the hospital for delivery. The only child of marriage was born on May 30, 2017 with a weight of 900 grams, extremely premature.
“Due to the need for intensive medical care, the baby and I spent 12 weeks in the newborn intensive care unit of the Trevor Mann Baby Unit of the Royal Sussex County Hospital Brighton and Special Care Baby Unoquest Hospital, St. Leonards before SEA, from May to August 2017, to fix risks in connection with birth before birth to regulate my blood pressure Rules, ”said Dooshim.
She claimed that Oyewole only visited and added twice from Nigeria and added that from 2017 to December 2019, when he was put under pressure, to step down from her job and return to Nigeria, the requirements of motherhood with her financial needs and her Bachelor's degree in Great Britain in Jongl.
“I was the main care for the child. In December 2021, Oyewole physically attacked me in the presence of his 67-year-old mother … his old mother could not calm him down during his tantrum and had to call his older sister to intervene.
“Oyewole rained abuses on his older sister during the phone call, whereupon she advised me to flee my life. All efforts to calm Oyewole during this attack were unsuccessful, and I was forced to leave the family residence at night without my personal items, while I had refused access to our child that was locked in a room.
“Between December 2021 and February 2022, we were separated and were subjected to lawyers and family members in several consulting and placement meetings, but none of these efforts solved the problems in the relationship. During this time, Oyewole refused to access the child. Security officers were instructed not to let me in, ”she added.
Dooshima now asks that the court grants her common custody of your child until he reaches adulthood.
“During the academic school year, the applicant has unrestricted access to the child, while the child lives in the respondent in Abuja, Nigeria. The child must not be removed from Abuja without the knowledge and approval of the applicant. The child will live in the academic year and spend the school holidays with the applicant.
“If the respondent moves from Abuja for some reason, including temporary work, official tasks, scholarships or an academic degree, the child must immediately move to the USA in order to live with the applicant during the academic school year and to have a vacation visit.
“If the respondent decides to marry adulthood on May 30, 2035, the child must immediately move to the USA in order to live with the applicant and visit the respondent during the academic school year.
“The respondent will have 50% of the financial responsibility for the well -being of the child, including accommodation, tuition fees, extra -curricular activities, health insurance, clothing, feeding, pocket money and transport,” said Dooshima.
The court has to set an appointment for a hearing.
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