Shakira’s break up from Gerard Pique shines a highlight on infidelity in relationships – Leisure Information , Firstpost

The couple have two sons and have lived together on the outskirts of Barcelona for years. Image courtesy: @FCBarcelona

Over the weekend, musical sensation and ‘Waka Waka’ hitmaker Shakira announced her split from FC Barcelona defender Gerard Pique after dating him for over a decade. The news came as a shock to Shakira and Pique fans, who were under the impression that the couple was happy together.

Although there has been no official confirmation from the two, prestigious entertainment outlets have confirmed that the split was due to Pique cheating on Shakira, leaving fans in disbelief. “If Shakira and Beyonce can be cheated, then there is no hope for us, ladies” — the above quote sums up the mood of many women and men on social media.

The question is relevant. If Shakira, a three-time Grammy winner, one of the best-selling female music artists of all time, and a gorgeous woman herself, can be betrayed, is there any hope for lesser mortals like us? The split sparked intense debate about infidelity in relationships on social media. There were polarized opinions.

While some felt that infidelity didn’t have much to do with the physical appearance and status of the person being cheated on, others felt that looks and money mattered. Here’s what the relationship experts have to say.

Why do people cheat in relationships?

A sex and marriage therapy study surveyed 495 people, 87.9% of whom were heterosexual, and asked why they were unfaithful to their partner in a relationship. The main reasons were anger, self-esteem issues and feelings of neglect. For the above reasons, it seems to be an individual’s inherent, ingrained psychological complexes that drive them to cheat on their partner.

However, other reasons also included the need for variety, sexual desire, and low attachment. To play devil’s advocate, people might actually cheat when they’re bored in a relationship and looking for variety and adventure. While there’s no definitive answer to the question “why do people cheat,” it could actually be both a lack of connection and deep-rooted insecurities (of the partner who is cheating) that play a role.

What should I do if I am scammed?

Clinical psychologists suggest that the first and most important thing to do when you’re being cheated on is to stop blaming yourself and better manage your mental health. Seek therapy if necessary.

Psychologists also say it’s okay to grieve and accept the feelings of regret. However, it is also important not to retaliate and to move on without temptation to reignite the affair. Some psychologists say it’s also important not to lie to yourself and be honest about what happened.

All in all, there can be a plethora of reasons why a person chooses to be unfaithful in a relationship. Although there is no definite answer, it is advisable to move on and seek better relationships.

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