Given the risk involved, we must weigh whether infidelity is worth the time and effort. This is because you get more than what you expected. Not only that, it takes you further than you’re willing to go, and it takes more than you’re willing to go.
I feel sorry for infidel actors, because I know that sweet things also carry deadly poison. A tribal proverb in Yorubaland goes: “Ikun n je ogede, on re idimo, komopeohun to dun, ni o npaeni.” This means that when the lawnmower is eating bananas excitedly and gesticulating, it doesn’t realize that sweets can also be deadly. Infidelity gives you pain at the end of the gains it brings. There is sadness and joy in infidelity. So calculate the costs.
One thing I’ve learned about decision making is to consider the risk involved along the line:
- Are you prepared for the price?
- can you avoid the price?
- Can you live with its consequences?
Below are some of the risks:
- It could be a one-way trip. If you start doing this, you may never survive. That means you don’t have a monopoly over its ending. A man went in and was consumed so much that his marriage was destroyed. He never survived.
- It destroys lives: of actors; families, especially the children. Why would you lose your life or the life of your loved ones on the plate of indulgence?
- It’s a loss of wealth. Job, business, etc. There are so many witnesses to this fact.
- It could be a jump from the frying pan to the fire. One man said he engaged in infidelity using the excuse that his wife was bad, but in the end the plot only added to his tale of woe.
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- It brings with it a badge of irresponsibility. Imagine the image your children will have of you when they realize you left them for another woman.
- It is also a breeding ground for health loss due to many possible infections to come into contact with.
- endangers your generation. Enitikoraoja, a wa ma san owo. That means kids are starting to reap the whirlwind of what they didn’t know about. It pollutes the water for future generations. They may fall into a trap to ruin a generation’s bright future.
- You may have to die regretfully as you reap the consequences of your infidelities in old age. You risk being abandoned by your wife and children and/or suffer from a guilty conscience.
However, they do not warn a person not to contact leprosy if they can avoid living in isolation. If one wishes to snare themselves under the uneasy yoke of infidelity with the risk involved, it is simply a voluntary choice, free from ignorance. But finally, in biblical terms, “He who has ears, let him hear what the Spirit says.” You are inexcusable when caught in the web of infidelity.
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