Men never forgive infidelity (Photo: iStock)
war room. If you, as a married woman, have not seen, read or heard this film, then your person has not deceived you enough.
Or just never cheated. This has always been a song for women as an encouragement to forgive their unfaithful husbands, especially when things have gone through the roof.
Watch War Room, get on your knees and pray for your husband. Go to the mountains and fast for 40 days and 40 nights and consecrate the man of your house to the Lord in prayer.
Well, women forgive easily. Okay – they don’t do that easily, it’s not that easy to forgive a cheating partner, but society and religion expect them to just pray and forgive. They cry through their nights and soak the pillows with tears begging God to change their person.
I don’t know, but every woman of this age and time has come to terms with the fact that at least once in his life his man will chew something new out there. So they don’t really get the shock when they find out. It’s just confirmation of fears.
But why is it so difficult for men to forgive infidelity? The thought of another man right there, naked in front of his wife, makes her choke! The idea that the other man could be a lot better than him at sex, that she could give it better than at home, these ideas just can’t go down.
The images can torment him all his life, especially when he sees his wife nearby, let’s say she is the legal wife with children.
This conversation was sparked by a tweet about a man filing for divorce because he literally dropped his wife’s pants. Just once and the man went nuts! The baby needed to remind him of the countless times she had caught him cheating but would still forgive him. In two such cases, children were born and she even took them in. But he wouldn’t hear any of that nonsense! How dare she have sex with another man, a man who is not him?
Men tend to take infidelity more seriously. That’s what one of my male friends says. Infidelity affects a man’s masculinity and is the greatest offense against his masculinity and identity, leaving questions about his sexual ability.
The act shatters his ego and lowers his self-esteem as a man, he may not even be able to face his boys out there. How do you tell your boys that another man shagged your wife?
Apparently, when a woman cheats, it goes deeper than the physical sexual touch, and when a man gets wind of it or has evidence, he gets mixed reactions. If there are children in the picture, chances are those children aren’t even his. Women are strange people, no jokes! So the whole idea of a woman cheating doesn’t suit every sane man.
See, women are believed to cheat for emotional reasons. Well, they are emotional beings. They cheat for attention and some for revenge. You all know that when a woman decides to take revenge, she uses all her gears and senses. Unlike men who only cheat for sex and nothing else, a woman would even fall in love while doing it. A man’s bruised ego can’t handle betrayal and forgiveness is the last thing on his mind.
Also, men are never psychologically prepared for the fact that their wives might cheat or try at some point. It’s the confidence that beats me! Because why do you think that a woman you met in adulthood would take care of you alone? That she can never look at another man and find him attractive and develop feelings for him?
Come on Jeremiah, just like you admire other women out there who are definitely other men’s wives, yours is no exception – she’s admired too!
For a man, his woman is his and no other man should touch her, no matter how busy he is in being touchy. Because at least every woman is someone and especially if you have yours at home, which you have chosen and made yours. Why should you be busy laying pipes where you don’t have a job?
No excuse is reason enough for a man to have his wife sleep with another man. There are those who have forgiven, forgiven, and live happily ever after with their wives. Then there are those who see cheating as the ultimate relationship breaker.
The day our brothers, husbands, and friends make peace with the fact that their wives may one day find someone more attractive than them, forgiving infidelity will never be as important. It is not seen as a weakness. They will easily talk about it and forgive, then wait for another cheating episode and forgive again.
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